Of course it’s not. But then I think this goes someway towards underlining the extent to which patriarchal societal norms are vigorously enforced by women for other women.
I haven’t read inside (pbuh), but I’m going to presume that OK’s focus is purely physical. There are many, severe mental health problems associated with childbirth. Many are covered here by NICE and they aren’t discussed enough.
So I thought I’d break my baby based silence to comment briefly on those two things.